Exam Fear
Hello everyone,
Today's blog is really important and should be shared with those who are right now in depression or are afraid of the exams. The fear of exams is not a rare thing and everyone feels it at some point in their life. Some overcome the fear whilst some drain in the stream of fear.
Let me tell you about my own experience with how I felt when I wrote my board exams. I had always been told that the board exams would be really tough and get through those exams would be the most challenging task for your life. At some point, I have feared the exams than any other thing. The whole day I was thinking all about the exams and about how could I get through them. But, the turning point came when I sat on my exam seat and started writing the paper. I thought at that moment that, "Is this the exam that I feared the most? Is this really that exam that I thought would be very tough to get through?" I was giggling and smiling during the whole exam. I was really very happy because the fear left my mind when I step out of the exam hall. I have told this many times to my friends and family. There is nothing to fear in exams.
Now, what causes the fear of exams, and what are the solutions to those problems.
Problem: You're fearing the exam because you might have not prepared well for the exam.
Solution: If you're feared due to this problem I don't have an outstanding magical solution for you. I have an ordinary solution that will surely repel your exam fear. If you haven't prepared for the exams, start right now (But first read my full article then immediately start preparations, Haha Just Kidding).
I would suggest, start preparing yourself before the fear surrounds your mind. Once if the fear would surround your mind, you couldn't be able to concentrate on studies and preparation. So, better now than never.Problem: The other problem which can cause the fear is, someone from your family or friends had made a bad impact on your brain about the exam. Someone had told you that boards or JEE, NEET exams are very tough and challenging.
Solution: This can make very bad impacts on your brain, which would eventually start fearing the exams. I wouldn't say that JEE, NEET entrance exams are not tough and challenging. They are indeed tough and challenging but not at that much of a level as you think or as your friends or family had told you. On the other hand, I would challenge that boards aren't really tough. They are too easy to make the marks and make your mark sheet stronger, nothing else. I had personally experienced this and that's why I can cite this.
I already shared my experience with Board exams. But when we talk about JEE, NEET exams they are tough but can be cracked if you make yourself tough against the challenge. I can give you an assurance that boards aren't as tough as much as your family had described them. But, don't take boards for granted after reading this or do not take it lightly, consequences might be severe of doing so. So, leave the fear and start preparing yourself.Problem: When you have fear of getting fewer marks or fail and not the fear of exams.
Solution: There are so many solutions to this problem and you can come across those solutions at least once a day. So, if you have the fear of failure, let it be. First, complete your exams and wait for the results. You're indeed be feared on the day of results because of fear of failure or getting fewer marks. Even Edison failed 999 times (people say). Talk to your elder ones or friends who know you better. I would rather suggest your teacher, who knows you better than anyone. Even your teachers know you better than yourself. Because they are the one who mends you and makes your future bright. They would know how to handle this problem.
Problem: This is the last and most important factor, which leads to the fear of exams. Peer Pressure.
Solution: If you're friends with those who are better than you at studies, you would surely have this problem. Your parents might compare you to your friends who get better results than you. But, let me tell you one thing, that your mark sheet won't decide who are you. It's your brain and it's your talent that decides who are you. Because everyone is different and with different talents. You also have a talent that just waits to be discovered. I have heard many saying that "I believe, I don't have any special talent!" That's really not true. Because I once felt the same but today I know what my abilities and how much potential I have. So, just wait for your time, because everything has a predetermined time. If you're fearing that your friends will get good marks and you will fail, then my friend just removes that idea, because that's just rubbish. I am sure you wouldn't want to fill your head with rubbish things. If your friends are getting good marks, let it be. You can do something extraordinary that they can't do. So, live in your own world of magic and perform your character at its fullest.
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Conclusion: I have written this because I just came across the news that a girl committed suicide because of fear of the NEET exam. I advise the students that suicide is not an option. It can't be and should never be an option. Live your life at fullest and don't fear anything. Because fear has two meanings.
F.E.A.R.= Forget Everything And Run
OR
F.E.A.R.= Face Everything And Rise.
So, the choice is yours.
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